Obsession-Booty!

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Booty, are you obsessed?

Last week I talked about boobies which we all know men and well women love them. Which brought me to the ASS!

Ass, BOOTY, Arse, Badonkadonk, and bum are all terms commonly used to explain the buttocks.

I have heard many times throughout my years as a female that men are either tits, leg, or ASS men. I don’t think personally I have ever ran into one that have been all three. It’s interesting though, what really attracts men. Why are they attracted to one part of a woman’s body and not the other? I am not saying that they don’t find a woman’s legs or tits any less attractive, no, I am saying is that the attraction is stronger, deeper to that one particular part and in this case the ass and what is it that really draws them in?

Scientifically speaking(I know YAWN….) men are attracted to a woman generally with a larger rounder bottom half due to the fact that it means one important thing-SHE IS FERTILE! Yes, Cavemen you can all beat your chest now. But science only plays a small role in why men choose tits or why they love that jiggle in the back. From all the research and different studies on this it all comes down to really preference.

Some men just love a really big round ASS!

Yes, I have to say this as I wouldn’t be doing my due diligence as a writer if I didn’t but big booties are also a cultural phenomenon as well.

It goes without saying that if you look into the African American culture you will see that women with round, curvy, and voluptuous rumps are celebrated! It is heavily in their culture from their clothing styles to music. In fact being a “rumpy” girl myself I looked into Beyonce’s line of jeans as well as “Applebottom” jeans that were supposed to fit a girl with a round ass and a small waist with no gap, which of course was a disappointment. We all could take some notes from the way the ass is celebrated and not hidden, especially Nicki Minaj, have you seen her in her latest video Starships? Her ass would be considered fat, not toned, all negative in other cultures, but I think she looks fantastic-YOU GO GIRL!

You GO GIRL!

Another culture that celebrates the bottom half is LATIN. The larger the hips and ASS the better. Women in Latin culture do not hide the fact that their ass is round, they flaunt it another fact we could learn!  From dancing the Flamenco to the Salsa hips are pulsating and butts are wiggling emphasizing the round curves a woman’s derriere.

So here we are stuck! As a woman belonging really to neither African American or Latin cultures and a booty that is round, voluptuous and has a jiggle when I walk, I can’t help but wonder where do I fit in?

As a kid growing up I had this ass!

Kids are mean! I was called BUBBLE BUTT, couldn’t find jeans and still to this day really can’t they all have that stupid gap in the back, I guess designers just assume that someone with an ass is going to have a big fat gut too-WRONG!!! I couldn’t find a bathing suit, so I had to buy two(back in the day when they sold bikinis as a whole size) just so the top would be one size and the bottom would be another.

I have danced most of my life, which included; jazz, tap, ballet, modern and belly dancing which only made this bubble butt even rounder and my thighs even stronger. I have tried to run it off, “Yoga” it off, Pilates, Jazzercise, and in my teenage “modeling” days (yes I modeled for awhile) when they told me ” suck in the butt” I tried to starve it off and all that did was get me down to 106 pounds and shrink everything but my ass, including my face which didn’t look pretty in pictures. Really what I am saying here is I should have been proud of it, embraced it, hell celebrated it! But I spent years trying to hide it, embarrassed by it and struggling with it.

Now though I have found that right combination-the tit to ass ratio. I also have found a partner who, yes, loves them both. I have to admit though when we first were together he was more of a tit man, but this round, beautiful, jiggly, wiggly, badonkadonk converted him over to the ASS SIDE.  Now and again he strays when I wear a revealing top that shows my cleavage but when he takes me to the bedroom and I reveal my g-string in between my cheeks he comes back.  All it takes is a glimpse of my thong or g-string slipping outside of my shorts and or jeans and he is instantly reminded that he is now a converted, obsessed ASSMAN.

Have you been converted?

So in summary be obsessed  over that roundness. Tell her you love the way she moves, the way she fills out her jeans, spank it, and rub it! Men we love it when you tell us we have a great ass so please keep telling us!

Ladies-BE PROUD OF THE CHEEKS! Love them…They have power, they make you strong and walk with pride there is nothing wrong with having beautiful curves-celebrate them daily.

FINAL THOUGHTS

Men-Tell & Show your woman you love their ass!

Ladies-BE PROUD OF THE CHEEKS!

Couples-Find a way this week to celebrate the ass! Have a massage day/night and rub it-damn this feels good! Do it only doggie style. Try “reverse cowgirl“.

Good luck & Have fun!

Gabriella

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I  recently read an article that intrigued and inspired me to write  this blog.  It has sparked debates between the SEXES and has been talked about over the years among couples, girlfriends, locker rooms, and between the sheets.  In fact I had a discussion with a very “close friend” just last week about it.  I am talking about BLOW JOBS!

 

The topic of BLOW JOBS  and all it’s fundamentals range from the SPIT V. SWALLOW  debate, how diet plays a role, a man’s hygiene and other factors.  So here I write an article about BLOW JOBS trying to inform and yes educate men and women alike in hopes to create a  SEXUALLY POSITIVE ENVIRONMENT for couples.

Although it is a man’s preference for a WOMAN’S MOUTH to be receptive to his semen and that in general this has been  “norm” some women have claimed that they find it difficult to perform or take .  So this section is for them in hopes to give them some techniques and or pointers, if you will to take his  “MANLY KOOL-WHIP” in her mouth.

TIPS TO SWALLOW:

• Put his manliness as far back in your throat as you can (deep throat) that way when he shoots his load, the saltiness and or taste doesn’t touch your tongue which triggers your taste buds and assaults them. Making it easier and less likely to taste his semen.
• After swallowing the juices of his “MANLY KOOL WHIP” take a big drink of fruit juice or some type of cola, it will help your taste buds recover from the salty taste.
• An oldie but a goodie, before taking his spunk spray your throat with some type of sore throat spray, it coats the throat allowing you to get him deeper and also numbs your throat and adds a flavor bonus that detracts away from the flavor of his juices.
• After he has filled your mouth and before you swallow take a few packets of a artificial sweetener and then down them with his naughty cream**you can also do this before and or after the deed.  It will coat your taste buds for awhile with the sweetness with a concentrated flavor.

**These are just a few, however I do encourage every partner to communicate with their lovers first and find what works best for you.

This next section is for the ladies out there that have an extreme aversion to the taste, smell, and or consistency of their lover’s juices(SORRY MEN).  Also some women have gag reflex issues and physiological and psychological issues that prevent and or impair them to SWALLOW and these tips are for them.  So GOOD LUCK my ladies!

TIPS TO SPIT:

• Give him head in the shower, when he comes in your mouth continue to play with him with your hands and let the creamy substances slowly flow out of your mouth as the water washes it away, he will be distracted by the play and the water will blend it out.
• ENTICE HIM, INVITE HIM! Men do enjoy watching a woman suck and lick their member, they also get off watching that white stream shoot out! Ask him to come somewhere ie; your tits, your face, your ASS, hell tell him you want a PEARL NECKLACE. He will enjoy this I promise!
• Some have recommended this one, but I have not tried this one.  From a male perspective they say it dulls the sensation, I wouldn’t know I am not a man.  You can have your lover put on a condom before starting a BLOWJOB then put a piece of gum and or candy to rid the taste of latex and just go for it till he comes.  After he comes take the condom off leave the load in the condom and take him in your mouth, he will enjoy the warmth of your mouth around his sensitive and now released cock.

Okay this next section is VERY IMPORTANT so men PAY ATTENTION!!!!

Men, we love you and do ENJOY it when you put your head between our THIGHS-OH DO WE ENJOY IT!!! But one thing we don’t enjoy is a man’s bad tasting sperm.  There is HOPE for you!  Diet is the KEY! So pay attention and FOLLOW CLOSELY!!!

TASTE:

• Stop drinking all that beer-THE MANTRA: “Not good for the GUT, Not good for the SPUNK.” say that every time you are about to go out with the guys.
• Replace so said BEER with juice (especially pineapple) it makes you sweet.
• EAT YOUR VEGGIES!
• Eat less meat it makes your “MANLY KOOL WHIP” taste like dirty pool water.
• Control your SALT INTAKE, do you really need salt on everything anyways?
• I am not saying to eat fish, because it is part of healthy diet, but 2 days before (at least) don’t eat anything that swims or crawls in the OCEAN.
• I have also read that SEMEN can get stale, so MASTURBATE-I know, I know that’s difficult for all of you, but just try!!!

Well this next section is a big part of this whole thing.  I will say that most women and I mean most women ( there are a few that aren’t) are naturally clean freaks, especially when it comes to their own personal HYGIENE and they expect nothing less of their MAN.  Studies have shown that women have an increased sensitivity to odor ie; smelliness, which leads me to say: CLEAN YOUR JUNK MEN!!!

HYGIENE:

1. If you are uncircumcised make sure you clean the under skin and rinse properly.
2. Rinse, wash, & REPEAT.
3. Clean those BALLS and follow step#2.
4. Make sure that you rinse really well, we don’t want a mouth full of soap.
5. DRY EVERYTHING, if you leave anything wet and just pull on your BOXER  and or “tightie whities” it tends to get a bit musky down there.
6. Hair-I think this is a personal choice, some women like to FLOSS, some women don’t…COMMUNICATE!

JUST KEEP IT CLEAN!

FINAL THOUGHTS:

• Just like I said in my previous post watch some porn and get ideas about technique and use it…
• Don’t be afraid to SWALLOW or SPIT-it’s all about preference and COMMUNICATION!
• MEN-Plan ahead, eat right!
• MEN- Say the MANTRA “Beer-Not good for the gut, Not good for the Spunk.”
• Women-If he goes between your thighs make an effort, take him in, accept his “MANLY KOOL WHIP” unconditionally by the SPIT or SWALLOW techniques I have given you, trust me you will be REWARDED.

Gabriella Deveraux 

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