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What’s your sign baby?

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Hotel Bethany-An Erotic Tale In Paris is available at Amazon. Check out the latest review:

Rated

I love the raw unpolished way it is put together, The writer related to me it reminds her of a journal or diary. I find that very true,it’s appealing to me. A young woman’s perception of sexuality and fantasy, it is fresh take on erotic. I like her Candor and imagination.The character Gabriella has a love of Paris that is equal to her sexual drive and ambition.It starts right out of the gate with steam and passion.There isn’t a moment that bores nor looses you. It keeps the Character fascinating and at the forfront . This is not my typical genre, the writer has a very creative charm and so i was drawn to read her work,i am glad i did. I recommend this book for some Hot Reading!

Hotel Kristof-An Erotic Tale In Luxembourg is also available at Amazon.  Here is my UK review for the book.Rated

This is a direct continuation from part 1 . With her emotions in turmoil after her experiences in Paris the first part of this book is a flood of emotions and memories that lead up to a slightly disappointing encounter on her way to Luxembourg . Once there she sets out to have another sexual adventure and after a little effort manages to find a couple of partners that over the evening take her and each other right to the limit. Lots of graphic action without forgetting the story line or characterization and nice to see a guy portrayed as considerate. What is she going to do next ?

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What’s your sign baby?What's your sign baby?

You see her across the room, her hair cascading down her back sitting at the bar.  She glances over her shoulder and she gives you that look, you know the look.  You take her in and she turns back around and sips her drink seductively showing you her sexual desire.  Is she giving you a sign? Possibly!  What are the signs that a man or woman wants you, desires you or is ready to jump in between the sheets? There are several signs that we all know but body language is complicated and everyone has different signs or ideas on how to show their desires.  What is your sign baby?

Body language can tell us rather a man or a woman wants us or for that matter doesn’t want us.  But it gets complicated when it comes to our communication.  A woman can and will tell you that she wants you and or desires you, but does it really mean that she does?  Yes, usually it does or she wouldn’t have said it!  I know men most of the time you think that we are just “faking” it but in general we want to make you happy and we want to please you.  After all we have a gene that you lack and that is of the “caretaker” of the family.  Now I am not saying that you can not be “caretaker’s” what I am saying in the general sense women are the caretaker’s of the family and with that they want to take care of you and your “needs”, wants, and desires.  So when it comes to SEX this is included.  What is disheartening as a woman is YOUR SIGNALS! I know you say that you are ALWAYS READY!! But are you really?  How do you convey to us that you are? Do you share with us that you are ready to RUMBLE in the sheets? You know you guys are not the best at communicating with us.  We also need a bit more than just “hey baby you wanna fuck?” or “do you want to have sex?”  So I would like to inform and educate both the SEXES on key elements on the signs to show that we are ready to have, well, SEX!

Women:What sign are you giving?

Men give either big hints or very small hints, there is generally nothing in between!  But I will say from some of the people I have spoke with there are some key elements to a man’s body language and his overall tone and vibe that will convey to you that he is ready to POUNCE!

Men generally will hold your hand if they are interested, this is their first move to show you that they are trying to connect with you physically.

Men will lean forward and close to hear you if they are interested in you and what you are speaking about and the opposite is true if they are not hitting it off with you or in some cases are MARRIED TO YOU!

If a man has on a tie and begins playing with it (and yes I know very few men wear ties these days) he is imagining you in his bed already.

If he has lowered his eyes to meet yours he is definitely into you and is already undressing you with his eyes in his mind.

When he plays with his hair or his ear lobe it is a sign that SEX is clearly on his mind.

These are subtle hints men give off that you can pick up on that will guide you in the right direction.  Take them with a grain of salt or use them to your advantage as with us men change as often as we change our shoes or our hair color.  Men all have different signals, some are mixed and some are easy to spot.  Try to see if you can pick up on the subtlety’s of a man and his desires for you.

Women sometimes men just like to hear that they are great! We constantly bombard them with ego killers so let’s try to boost them once in awhile.  Give them credit even when they don’t deserve it, they won’t expect it.  Didn’t your mother ever teach you to be nice to everyone? Men need love and they need sex and in their heads they are one in the same.  So give him a sign once in awhile.  I know ladies we get caught up in all our crap throughout the day, week, months, and god forbid years, but sex is an integral part of our lives and it keeps us going.  Use your own tools to give him that wink, that smile to let him know that you want him and you desire him-HE NEEDS YOU TOO!

Men:

What sign are you giving him?

I hate to say this but men you have a tougher job!  WE women are a bit more complicated.

Women are more subtle when you first meet, she glances at you, she flirts with you.  One way she flirts is playing with her hair, she tosses it to the side or twists it with her finger, but men I think you are smarter than this, you already know this one, but I added this for those who might not.ve quite a few indicators as far as body language is concern but after that, after the bar scene and after the dating period is over and after the HONEYMOON is over you are probably asking yourself NOW WHAT? Well I am trying to help you out.  I will give you some hints, tricks and tips from a woman’s perspective and my ladies that read my blog feel free to add anything to this if you would like.

If her legs are crossed but directed towards you, not away from you that means she is definitely interested in you.

If she plays with her glass or a fork and begins slightly stroking it, she has you already back in her bed.

Has her voice changed yet? If her tone has gone to a light whisper this generally means she is trying to seduce you.

If she is licking her lips and no I am not saying if she is out in the desert or having frost bite I am saying in a normal setting if she is licking her lips, she is thinking of how your lips will feel against hers.

This part of the section is for the married men or the ones that are in a long term and or committed relationship:

If you have already gone to the trouble to be nice and listen today and really paid attention to her needs and of course I am assuming she has done the same.  You have both come to the conclusion that you actually want to have sex, but you don’t know how to communicate what type of sex you would like to have here is another tip for you that I like to call the LINGERIE COLOR CODE SYSTEM.  Trust me it will work and in general if you actually look up the colors there are representations for these colors and how they make a person feel, but I am just using my common sense and experience. So I will break it down for you.

LINGERIE COLOR CODE SYSTEM:

White:  She wants it soft and seductive.  Play it smooth buddy!

Pink:  She wants to be a little playful and flirty with you but still wants you to make love to her.

Yellow:  Yellow will always remind her of summer, she wants to be free spirited so make love to her with great passion! Don’t throw in any kinky stuff just ravish her.

Red:  She is feeling seductive and she wants you to seduce her or she wants to seduce you, this is where it is important to pay attention to her moves.  Is she wanting to be on top? If so she wants to seduce you, if not she wants you to play the part of seducer.

Black: This is where all hell breaks loose.  This is where she wants to be NAUGHTY!! Throw in the kink, spank her a bit, pull her hair a bit. Again as I have said before in previous posts you do need to communicate and by now you should know a bit about your partner, but this is just a simple guide.  Also on a side note it also depends on the material with black if it is lace you need to walk a fine line.  She could be feeling a bit in between PINK, WHITE, and then you need to work up to BLACK. So pay attention to her moves and her vibe-HER SIGNS!

I know men I didn’t cover the whole gamut of colors but I tried to cover the basics.  I hope it helped you understand women a little bit better.  One thing a woman really needs to hear is that you desire her! She doesn’t want to hear “your hot, you wanna fuck?”  Tell her she is beautiful or tell her how much you appreciate her and how great of a job she is doing this will give her all that she needs from you, which is communication and this will make her spread them quicker than anything!

Men and women are so different when it comes to the way we communicate and that is so obvious in the way we FIGHT! So let that be a lesson to how you pick up on the different signs or vibes that we are giving off.  One person could be thinking that they are telling the other CLEARLY that they want to GO JUMP IN THE SACK, when the other one thinks that they are being silly or funny!  It’s all about interpretation.  I read a book awhile ago and it had another system based on beads given to the male and when he wanted sex he would put a bead in a place for his wife to see that way there was no confusion on who wanted sex, the woman had to redeem the bead within 24 hours.  The problem with this system is that what was the woman getting?  Sometimes and I know I am probably going to get flack for saying this but you men are jerks and the last thing that is on our mind is to lay down with you.  There is a real problem with this system because only one person is really being rewarded, yes the woman is getting pleasured, but the man is getting the power.  I think it should be a mutual bead system.  Again there is a lack of communication in the relationship system.  Sex is an integral part of any relationship.  When the sex breaks down it seems like everything else breaks down with it.  That’s why I think it is so important to communicate and pick up on each other’s signs.  So over the next week pay attention to each other and what type of sign you are giving off to each other. Find a system that is going to work with each other.  Lastly use your signs for good not evil!This is a really good SIGN

Have a great weekend see you on Monday!

Gabriella D.

Owner/Hotlit Books

Seeing Red-The Scarlet(T) Phenomenon.

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Scarlet-What is the meaning to you?

“Frankly, my dear, I don’t give a damn”

Rhett Butler Gone with the wind

I am not talking about that Scarlett. Today we are discussing her wicked STEP SISTER. READ ON & FIND OUT.

The color RED is synonymous with PASSION, love, SEX, and a multitude of SINS-haven’t you ever wondered why. Well today’s blog is ABOUT JUST that.

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The color RED has many meanings to many CULTURES & here are a few examples:

  • CHINA= COURAGE,loyalty,fortune, and HAPPINESS.
  • JAPAN= Heroic figure,SEXUALITY, and purity.
  • CENTRAL AFRICA= LIFE,health, and in some areas DEATH.

America’s Love/Hate Relationship with RED

In America we have had a long history with the color RED. We have our FLAG, which has had the red stripes since the very beginning in 1777. We have our revered SPORTS TEAMS ie; the RED SOCKS and the Detroit Red Wings.  What I really want to talk about is the EVIL or bad connotation that the color RED has here in the UNITED STATES.

BIBLICAL INFLUENCE

It all started from the root of all EVIL-

(do you hear Austin powers nemesis  Dr. Evil coming out yet?)

Some might say the BIBLE, but as my father would say no one talks about RELIGION or POLITICS amongst company but we can discuss the color RED without bringing up these TWO.

  • RED=SATAN
  • SIN=RED

As RED is to Satan, sin is to RED. So let’s discuss the proverbial category of SIN for a moment according to dictionary.com this is the definition of SIN.

SIN:

1.transgression of divine law: the sin of Adam.
2.any act regarded as such a transgression, especially a willfulor deliberate violation of some religious or moral principle.
3.any reprehensible or regrettable action, behavior, lapse,etc.; great fault or offense: It’s a sin to waste time.
 SIN
What an UGLY WORD! So closely associated with guilt. RED, should be and has been associated with the LOVE, PASSION, AND SEX. So why do we look at the SINFUL part so closely here. I will tell you why, we have associated ourselves with the guilt and shame of feeling SEXUAL as it is not part of our NATURE. Why must we feel this way? Were we not born to feel beauty? Were we not created to touch, feel, hear and embrace one another?
MARS & VENUS
I really don’t want to go into to much detail about the differences about women and men and how sin is perceived from the sexes, but I will say that this article was inspired by THE SCARLET LETTER  and how RED directly influences our DAILY LIVES.But maybe this week take a look around and see if you notice how red is an integral part OF YOUR LIFE.  BE SCARLET FOR THE WEEK
LOVE ONE ANOTHER!
ASSIGNMENT OF THE WEEK 
  1. WEAR RED !
  2. Explore your SEXUAL SIDE.
  3. Don’t be ASHAMED & feel GUILTY.
  4. FIND your passion.
  5. Enjoy ONE ANOTHER!

THE infamous GABRIELLA DEVERAUX!

Gabriella Deveraux-

Author (Erotic for now), Sprite (pixie), and all around lover of all things that have to do with nature and sensuality. She contributes to this blog and her website at http://www.hotlitbooks.com

Her first book HOTEL BETHANY is at http://www.amazon.com and you can find out more author and ordering information on her website at hotlitbooks.com. You can also find her on FACEBOOK AND TWITTER. She is currently working on her second book due out the beginning of April.

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